Title: Model Nimra Jacob accuses Hasnain Lehri of physical assault, he denies claims
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In a shocking turn of events, Pakistani models Hasnain Lehri and Nimra Jacob have found themselves at the centre of a controversy following an alleged incident at the Trade Development Authority Pakistan's (TDAP) fashion show during this year's Textile EXPO (TEXPO2023). A video released by a Pakistani tabloid captured Lehri engaged in a heated argument in the presence of other models, including Jacob.
The video showed a tense situation as the female models surrounded Jacob, who appeared visibly shaken by the alleged incident. The argument unfolded as Lehri vehemently denied the accusations. While some people held Lehri back, a group of models surrounded Jacob, who was on the verge of tears.
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While The Express Tribune reached out to Jacob's manager for a statement and is yet to hear back, the model posted a series of Instagram Stories to convey her side of the story. "You can't mistreat me. You can't threaten me. You can't bully me. And you surely will not put your hands on me without consequences," stated the model. "We, in the fashion industry, have seen too much abuse, disrespect, and complete, utter negligence for our safety to tolerate it anymore. I have no space in my heart for forgiveness when it comes to abuse, harassment, bullying, assault, etc."
She wrote further, "Without any plausible cause, threats were made at me. I was verbally abused and physically assaulted. My property was taken and used to blackmail me. My female colleagues were harmed in the process of trying to protect me. This all happened at work, where I made sure to bring it to the attention of the management that I was being threatened by the perpetrator before he even became violent. The management should have taken action the first time I mentioned concern for my safety."
Jacob continued, "I'm lucky there were eyewitnesses to this man's horrific actions. From his threats to his violence, some people witnessed it all. As traumatized as I am, I'm not standing alone. I refuse to let anyone abuse, threaten, intimidate, or belittle my colleagues or myself in any way. Today I stand to let you know that I will call out these abusers, harassers, and bullies for exactly who/what they are. Every single one of them."
Capping off her thoughts, she said, "If we want the industry to be a safe space, we need to take a stand and collectively check disrespect at the door. We need to demand accountability for those who are supposed to ensure our safety at work. And demand zero tolerance for the perpetrators involved in spewing such violence and aggression at the workplace. I'm done with this toxic, abusive culture. No more! Enough is enough."
Lehri denies accusations
The Express Tribune was able to get in touch with Lehri. The model has shared that Jacob first misbehaved with him. "I categorically deny all accusations of physical altercation and abuse," Lehri said. "I come from a very respectful family, we aren't the kind of people who would get into an issue as petty as this."
Sharing how the events unfolded, the model commented that it all began when Jacob purposefully bumped into him during the ramp walk for sportswear brand, Spartans. "During the crossing at the ramp, Jacob hit my shoulder. We went backstage and she walked towards me, asking me to learn how to walk on the ramp. This resulted in an argument and she brought my deceased father into the conversation." Lehri then asked her to leave and the duo went back on-ramp for the finale.
He added there are witnesses for this verbal argument. He then asserted many people were present there, including organisers Tehmina Khalid, Tehmim and choreographer Nubain Ali. "I raised my issues with them, who told me [Jacob] has had several issues with other models and is notorious for her unprofessionalism," he said.
"When the show was done, I packed my bag, readying to leave; Nubain approached me and asked me what the issue was. As Nubain and I were discussing, this is when [Jacob] returned and started the argument again," Lehri went on. "She then told me to f--k off, and I said it back. That's when she took out her phone and started recording me."
The model added that he asked Jacob not to make a video four times in front of Ali before Lehri took her phone. He recalled snatching the phone from Jacob's hand. "This isn't acceptable and I took her phone. That is all I did. I took the phone from her hand and kept it with me because she was recording me without my consent. She just wanted to show her side of the story," he said. "I wish I had taken out my phone and started recording how [Jacob] was misbehaving as well."
Lehri added he will not be manipulated by anyone and will not stand for bullies. "With God as my witness, I can swear on the Holy Book that all I did was take her phone. I didn't assault anyone, I didn't physically abuse her. [Jacob's] three friends teamed up against me. They will support her," he added.
Lehri further shared that even though he can gather countless witnesses to the argument, he won't do the same and he "doesn't want to stoop down to their level." He said, "I can come up with several witnesses when the time comes. If you bring my deceased father in to gain points and then record me without my consent, I will snatch her phone. She had been provoking me the whole time. I told her not to instigate issues that aren't present. Because of them, the real issues of women are suppressed."
He added that when he was discussing the issue with the organisers and after Jacob threatened to 'call men', Lehri added he told them to call whoever they wanted to. Once he refused to return Jacob's phone, the police were called. "If I was in the wrong and the alleged physical assault did happen, why would the police let me leave? I was free to go," Lehri remarked. "I respect my fraternity but [Jacob] is grossly manipulating the whole situation."
Organisers unfold what went down
The Express Tribune also contacted Khalid, the event organiser and CEO of Take II PR. Khalid was vehement in her stance, refuting that security was lax and called the entire ordeal a 'catfight' based on past tussles. "This happened when the show had officially ended," began Khalid. "Everyone had left. Regarding Jacob's connection with security, the Prime Minister came to the inaugural event. As far as Expo security is concerned, all the security agencies were hired. Expo Center was a highly secure place. This is a TEXPO exhibition, which TDAP has annually, where more than three hundred exhibitors and fifty buyers of all nationalities were present. It cannot be that such a VIP event doesn't have security."
She also went on to deny allegations of abuse. "Nobody raised hands on anybody. It was an old feud between these two models that's been going on for years - a grudge they had to settle. I think the girls probably had some grudge over the boy. Do you understand a catfight? It was a childish catfight, with 'Oh, he elbowed me,' and 'Oh, this person abused my father or mother.' It was a small catfight. But what is happening these days is that people start making videos and putting them on social media to achieve something out of it."
She then stated that had such an incident occurred, the police and medical teams would have been involved. "But nothing of the sort happened, so how would we perform a medical, create a report, or go to the police?" Khalid also stated numerous times that reports claiming that Lehri was taken by police were false. "No, Lehri was not taken by the police. He was at home."
Khalid said, "I'm a woman, I will always side with women, so we told him to apologise to Jacob. He was ready to apologise. He was sweet enough; he said, 'Okay, I will apologise.' But then that girl said that you must fall to every girl's feet and apologise to all when all the girls weren't even connected to the whole thing."
Detailing the strict security measures, Khalid said, "This was really blown out of [proportion.]" She, once again, doubled down on the fact that it was a 'catfight' between two models, recounting how such issues are commonplace within the fraternity. "This was not a lapse on the part of the organisation," she stated.
When asked to confirm the timeline and whether or not this happened after the show, Khalid said, "Of course. One and a half hours after the show. Everybody had left. I don't know why these girls stayed back. They were settling scores." She further elaborated, "Their tussle was ongoing. They were in the last segment, probably. That was Ali Xeeshan's segment. Xeeshan is a loud man who, after a successful finale, gathers all the girls, his journalists, the organising team for a picture. In that image, you can see both Jacob and Lehri." She also stated that they all did a celebratory dance backstage and there was "no tension." Khalid clarified, "Had I known, I would have stayed; we would have stayed; nobody stayed."
She reiterated again, "After investigating the whole thing last night - nobody touched anybody. I would have never allowed that. I would have called the police there and then. Nobody punches anybody. We told the girls last night, too - get a medical done. But nobody went because there was nothing there. They just wanted to vent on social media."
When asked if the police got involved, Khalid said, "Not at all. No. No. It was badly reported by social media. No police were involved. People said Lehri was taken in by the police, but he was sitting with me. We sat him down and asked him to apologise and he did."
When asked about security and the perceived lack of involvement of officials present, Khalid said, "You can see security moving Lehri away. These guards cannot touch the girls. Because if any security official comes in and touches a girl, I will kill him. You cannot touch girls." Khalid then went on to demand proof of the alleged assault. "I want proof," she said. "If someone like Lehri punches a girl, there will be a bruise. You go to the police and get it reported. And I swear I'd go to the police myself."
When again asked if Lehri took up the issue with Khalid after the show, she said, "Yes. After the show, he was the first to come and complain to me. As soon as he got off the ramp, the show was going on, he came up - Deepak Perwani was sitting there, I was sitting there and someone else was there too - and he told us what she did - elbowed him and abused his recently deceased father. He was all shaky. I held his hand and asked him to calm down. One can only console. Perwani said that we would settle this. He said that he always behaves himself but this girl has been picking on him since day one."
Khalid agreed with Lehri about his behaviour and explained that she thought all would fizzle out. She was surprised by the events that transpired after. "It has nothing to do with us and nothing to do with the organisational issues," repeated Khalid. She then went on to state that due to contractual agreements, she and her team might send out legal show-cause notices. " We have a strict contract with the girls. They cannot go and badmouth the client or anybody because these girls do this on social media nowadays." She continued, "If they malign the organisation, they will receive a show-cause notice." Continuing on, she said that she, herself, could issue a legal notice. "I can do a legal thing on this incident. They were not supposed to blame the organisation or us in this personal feud."
Industry lends support to Jacob
Prominent model Zara Peerzada took to her Instagram Stories to share her thoughts on the matter. "Stop hiring violent males to walk your shows, be in your shoots. It's not complicated. How about when you see abuse taking place, you address it and intervene? It's not complicated. Stop doing empowerment campaigns for women to sell your clothes when you don't have respect for them or their safety. It's not complicated. This is not an isolated incident. Why are models alone braver than all managements, guardians of industry, and designers with all their pomp and circumstance? Why do you hesitate so to discipline or sideline abusive men? It comes at the cost of safety," she said.
Fashion designer Kamiar Rokni also shared a statement, voicing his concerns about the incident and stressing the importance of creating a safe space for models. "Toxic male behaviour needs to be addressed in the fashion industry," he stated. "Violence against girls backstage at a fashion show is a new low. This can not be allowed to happen again it is up to us to come together and make this a safe place for the girls. Our models are an invaluable part of our industry and we can't stand around while they are abused."
Farwa Ali Kazmi, another prominent model, joined the chorus of support for Jacob, calling for accountability and proper investigation. "In solidarity with girls who experienced this traumatic incident," wrote Kazmi. "Shame on those who watched and did nothing other than Sachal Afzal who stood up for these girls. Whatever beef you have with a person, it is never okay to raise your hands on another person, especially women. It is not okay to threaten and disrespect others. To claim that you respect women and do otherwise, it's just so disappointing. Breaks my heart that I once knew this person and believed him to be a good human. Shocking how one can have many faces/personalities."
PR maven Frieha Altaf also tweeted her support for Jacob. "Deeply disturbed by the news on how Jacob, a model was bullied and felt unsafe at a fashion event. Anoushey Ashraf, [the] red carpet host also felt scared and unsafe at a man making a video of her at the same event. Must create safe spaces for all women at work," she penned.
Deeply disturbed by the news on how #nimrajacobs, a model was bullied & felt unsafe at a fashion event. Anoushey Ashraf, red carpet host also felt scared & unsafe at a man making a video of her at the same event. Must create safe spaces for all women at work. #Safeourwomen pic.twitter.com/LBcwefaNDp
— Frieha Altaf (@FriehaAltaf) May 28, 2023
Ashraf did, however, tweet a correction pertaining to Altaf's tweet. "I wasn’t quoting my experience from this event though," she said. "It was earlier during the day when I was driving. Mistreatment of women is a very real issue and no one should feel they can get away with it."
I wasn’t quoting my experience from this event though. It was earlier during the day when I was driving. Mistreatment of women is a very real issue and no one should feel they can get away with it.
— Anoushey Ashraf (@Anoushey_a) May 28, 2023
Model Eman Suleman stated, "Let's not pretend this hasn't happened before. We've heard stories, and many of you have witnessed the violent tendencies this man has displayed before. He should've been held accountable then, but this industry loves protecting toxic men."
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Published Date: 28-May-2023
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